Ways to control your life

Do you think Feel. Or believe.elieve? That you have control over your life. Ultimate control. Do you have control if you get a raise? If you get that promotion? If you? Get hired if you. Get a client if you Get fired. Do you really think? No for sure. In your heart of hearts. That you have control. The answer is no. Because although you may work hard. And you do everything that you can to get the job, to get the studies, to go back to school, to save the money, to pay down debt, to be healthy, to do all of the things that. Not only has been taught and ingrained in us by society to show us that we are successful and are attaining whatever level of success, but also. No matter how much you do. All of those things and you start to control all of those variables. The only thing you can control is whether you quit or commit. That's it. You can't make Someone Like You. You can't make. The recruiter hire you. No matter how good you make your resume or portfolio, or how much you study or how much you save, nothing can guarantee another thing. The only thing guaranteed is how much you put of yourself into yourself, how much faith and courage. How much feeling you put into yourself? So that you can then go out and. Change jobs, let go of the person. Create a business, whatever it is, that then becomes your main theme, the thing that. Is fulfilling to you. Then everything else gets easier. So you don't need to worry or stress about whether you have control of. Getting a certain money or getting a certain job. The concern needs to be how much are you devoting to yourself? To your inner. Inner life. Your spirit, your self-awareness, how much are you committing to your? Psychology. Physiology. How much are you? Helping yourself heal and strengthen so that then you can make the necessary decisions that are in your control. Like quitting the job, going back to school, creating a website, a portfolio. Doing all the other things. That then you know are within your reach, and even still you know that. Creating a business is not going to happen overnight, but you will take steps to get there. Dumping the corporate ladder. Overnight does not mean overnight success, but you know that you have control and more autonomy. And power in your hands. So what is it that you have control over? Really. What is it that you want control over? And what are you doing about it? What are the actions that you're taking today? That empower you, strengthen you. Bring you back to yourself every day. Because you only can control yourself, strengthen yourself, love yourself. And that's it.

Raquel Sands

I’m a Squarespace Designer and Career coach who creates feel-good designs and businesses for femalepreneurs.

https://www.miriamraquelsands.com
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