In relationships, if you’re not sure about a friend or romantic partner, ask yourself: How do I feel about this person? What are some ways that we bring out our authentic selves? Most of the time, how does this person affect me? Is there more struggle or contentment?

Recognize that you won't know all the things, all the pieces in order to make that decision, first start with where you are, how you’re feeling, and what you’d like to feel.